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LELAKI

Lelaki bujang kena tanggung dosa sendiri apabila sudah baligh.
Manakala dosa gadis bujang di tanggung oleh bapanya.
Lelaki berkahwin kena tanggung dosa sendiri,
Dosa isteri, dosa ank perempuan yg belum
Berkahwin dan dosa ank lelaki yg belum baligh.

Beratkan?
Hukum menjelaskan ank laki kena tanggungjwb ke atas ibunya dan sekiranya dia tidak menjalankan tanggungjawabnya,maka berdosa baginya terutama Anak laki yg tua,manakala perempuan tidak,
perempuan hanya perlu taat pada suaminya.Isteri berbuat baik,
Pahala dapat kepadanya,kalau isteri buat benda tak baik
Mcm tak menutup aurat dgn sempurna,Dosanya di tanggung
oleh suami.Beratkan??

Suami kena bg nafkah pada isteri, ni wajib tapi isteri tidak.
Tapi isteri boleh Bantu untk ringankan beban suami.
HARAM bagi suami bertanyakan pendapatan isteri,
Lebih-lebih lagi menggunakan pendapatan isteri tanpa izinnya.

Banyak lagi laki, lebih-lebih lagi bila dah bergelar SUAMI.
Suami kena tanggung.Kalau nk di bayangkan beratnya,
Dosa-dosa yg perlu ditanggung seperti gunung dan semut.

Wanita..
- Auratnya lebih susah dijaga berbanding laki.
- Perlu meminta izin dari suaminya apabila mahu keluar dari rmh.
- Saksinya kurang berbanding laki.
- Perlu menghadapi ksusahan mgandung dan melahirkan ank.
- Wajib taat kpd suami tapi suami tak perlu taat kpdnya..cume suami la kena consider.
- Talak terletak di tgn suami
- Wanita kurg beribadah kerana masalah haid dan nifas yg tak ada pd laki.
PERNAHKAH KITA TGK SEBALIKNYA??

Benda yg mahal harganya akan dijaga dan dibelai serta disimpan di tempat yg tersorok dan selamat.
Sudah pasti permata tidak akn dibiarkan bersepah-sepah bkn?itulah bandingannya dgn seorg wanita.

Wanita perlu taat kpd suami tetapi laki wajib taat kpd ibunya 3kali lebih utama daripada bapanya.
Bukankan ibu adalah seorg wanita?

Wanita menerima harta pusaka kurg dari laki,
Tapi harta itu menjadi milik peribadinya dan tidak perlu diserahkan kpd suaminya,manakala laki perlu menggunakan harta pusaka itu
untk menyara anak-anak dan isteri.

Wanita perlu bersusah-payah untk mengandung dan melahirkan anak,tapi setiap saat dia di doakan oleh segala haiwan,malaikat, dan seluruh mahluk ALLAH SWT di muka bumi dan matinya jika kerana melahirkan adalah syahid kecil.Manakala dosanya di ampunkan
Oleh ALLAH SWT..

Seorang wanita boleh masuk pintu syurga melalui mana-mana pintu syurga yg di sukainya cukup dgn empat syarat shaja..
-Sembahyang lima waktu
-Puasa di bulan Ramadhan
-Mentaati suami
-Menjaga kehormatannya

Seorang laki perlu pergi berjihad fisabilillah tapi wanita jika taat kpd suaminya serta menunaikan tanggungjawbnya kpd ALLAH SWT akan
turut menerima pahala seperti pahala orang berperang Jihad fisabilillah tanpa perlu mengangkat senjata.
MasyaALLAH! Sayangnya ALLAH pada wanita..

Seorang wanita adalah pelengkap dan sememangnya istimewa di sisi seorang laki,tanpa wanita, laki tidak akn wujud di muka bumi ni..tanpa wanita kuat tidak wujud pemimpin yang bwrwibawa,tanpa
wanita tidak wujud lelaki yg beriman..tapi,ingatlah wahai lelaki, wanita itu juga merupakan fitnah dunia..

Wahai lelaki...
Kamu juga sebenarnya adalah istimewa di sisi ALLAH,
Maka dengan sebab itu DIA mengangkat kamu menjadi pemimpin bagi wanita tidak kira di dalam masyarakat mahupun keluarga..Dengan keistimewaan itu JAGALAH dan HARGAILAH wanita dengan sebaik-baiknya suapaya nanti masing-masing lelaki dan wanita dapat pulang mengadap ALLAH SWT bersama-sama dalam keadaan istimewa di sisiNYA..

kejarlah matlamat hidup itu bersama..utamakan akhirat insyaALLAH
kalian tidak akan terleka dengan tipuaan dunia yang fana..

study study!!

I really wanted to study tonight. But I cant excess my online notes. urgghhh!!! pressure!!!

FOO FOGHTERS live in Burswood Dome

Last monday was a blast! Foo Fighters gave us the best show ever. They have the best showmanship i ever seen. Dave was awesome. His voice was so powerful and it sounded even better live. Man, that was the best concert ever!

breaks over!

Today is the 1st day of school after the 2 weeks break. I thought that I have a lab today. So last night I did a little bit of preparation for the lab just to found out this morning that my lab were suppose to be next week! So i asked the lecturer if I can just join this group instead since I'm already here. He said yes why not and smile. I scored full mark for my lab assessment today and I'm super happy. Not to mention Foo Fighter Tonight! OK so i went for my next class early and there's this 1 student who bought his little daughter along with him. Cute kid. 10 minute after that, this Australian dude came in and sit in front of me. He was shocked to see there's little kid runing around in the lecture theater the he look at me and ask "is she yours?" I'm going to the concert now. Will update more :D

The Definition Of LOVE

I know the topic is a bit "jiwang" hehehe. When i was back in Malaysia during the previous summer break, I went to meet my old friend who studied with me together in MMU, Matthew. We went to Sunway Pyramid because we have a lots of things to catch up. At one time, when we were in a book store, there were this one book that attract my attention. "SPEECHES THAT CHANGE THE WORLD" were written on the front cover. so I bought the book and bring it where ever I go until I finished reading it but its not with me anymore. I gave it to one of the most important person in my life. Anyway back to the topic. There are one Speech that I would like to share with all if my friends. Its called "The Definition of Love" by ST Paul taken from the bible. Yeah, I repeat, bible. There is nothing wrong about it as long ase take what ever that is good and apply it in our life. So, here goes...



"DEFINITION OF LOVE"

LOVE is patient and kind, LOVE knows neither envy nor jealousy,
LOVE is not foward and self-assertive, nor boastful and conceited,

SHE does not behave unbecomingly, nor seek to aggrandize herself,
nor blaze out in passionate anger, brood over wrongs,

SHE who finds no pleasure in injustice done to others,
but joyfully sides with the truth

SHE knows how to be silent, She in full of trust,
full of hopes, full of patient endurance,

freezing beach

It was sunny yesterday morning. Me and my house mate, Hazrin aka Ujang were in the kitchen making sardine sandwich. Packed some plate and cup in our picnic basket, wrap our sandwiches. We are preparing to go to the beach for a picnic! hahaha the funny part is, 30 min after we arrived at Cottesloe Beach, it started to rain. We were playing beach volley ball at that time. Can u believe that? so we make a run to another beach, Scarborough. Luckily the rain finally stoped and there are some events going on here. Concert and stuff like that by the beach. nice huh? it was still cold but we decided to dive into the sea anyway and it was freezing cold!!! I lasted for about 30 minute because I couldn't stand the chilly weather plus the cold water plus the windy wind. So I go and get myself a nice hot mocha from Dome cafe. It was the most craziest beach experience I ever had in my life but the point is, I had a fun weekend. :D

paradise city

Today i went to the city with my house mate, Apex along with Kme, Hani and Raihana. It was fun! we went shopping 1st. Raihana got herself two pair of shoe. After that we went to a guitar store. there's this limited edition Epiphone SG400 custom, white colour and I think I'm gonna get that one later on when I have the money. We went to Taka the Japanese restaurant later for our dinner. The food was great and we had a good time as well. we talked about lots of things. Then, we went to Cottesloe Beach to get our dessert but it was too cold to eat ice-cream so we get ourself a nice hot chips instead after the long talk while eating chips, we went to the beach to take some photos of ourself. Took a cool photo of our shadows. Hani still wants her dessert so badly so we went to Tiamo restaurant somewhere near my house to get our dessert. The mudcake was awesome! Another quality time with friends.

WISH LIST

1. become a better person in every aspect
2. graduate
3. helping out my parents
4. getting married
5. twin babies
6. Gibson SG deluxe
7. go back to Malaysia
8. to change Malaysian politics
9. visit all 8 wonders of the world
10.own a business
11.meet Martin Luther King (not possible)
12.go to Mecca n Madinah
13.live a decent, happy life
14.become a good muslim
15.Ferrari F430
16.backpacking across Europe with best buds
17.own a jamming studio
18.sail ship
19.ehem ehem lol

FOO FOGHTERS!!!!

Last semester, me and Ucop went out to the city to buy Foo Fighters Ticket. It was the second day they released the ticket but it has already sold out! So Ucop called me just know and offer me his extra ticket that he got from a friend who couldn't make it to the concert for 80 aud. the original price was 125 aud. Just my luck huh? hahahaha so FOO Fighters!!! Here i come!! weeee~

KARAOKE

Last night was not so bad. It was fun actually. I went to karaoke with my friends. there were Poknik, Kme, Doc, Apex, Farah wahida, Saufi, Pojoe, Linda, Ujang and a few others. we dropped Ujang and Apex at the karaoke and the spend 30 min driving around the city looking for a parking space. It was a weekend night so the city was very crowded that night. OK, so we couldn't find any parking lot and decided to park at CPP instead. (CPP is a private parking lots which require you to pay the parking fee per-hour) Because of that, me and doc were the last person to arrive. They sang a lot of songs. there were the old Malaysian rock kapak, Indonesian, Chinese, Oldies, Rock band and to my surprise, even Dangdut! (Sang by Farah Wahida if you must know and just so that you dont get any wrong idea). So we sang and sang and sang for 4 HOURS! hahaha yups no kidding. 4 hours. Cost us 206 aud (ouch). But i dont mind really. Its not like we went to karaoke every weekend. I dont mind spending some cash to spend quality time with my friends.

FINALLY.....

My friends have been asking me to write my own blog for ages now and guess what? Finally they've succeeded. I'm not much of a writer so please note that i wont update my blog every single day. The purpose of this blog is to give my friends the latest updates of my life and whatever that i feel to write or put in my blog. Thank you.